Importance Of Going To Bars and Clubs To
Attract Women
By: Michael
The Dating Wizard
Clubs are not
the end all and be all.
Really!
In fact, I've
noticed that in general, the women who ARE attractive in clubs tend
to have a higher rate of drinking and smoking than the women who
are attractive that you meet randomly in places like the library,
the bookstore, the café, etc.
It's important to me to always be 100% honest and
accurate.
That being
said, the fact ALSO is that it doesn't MATTER that clubs aren't
necessarily the best place to meet a "quality"
woman.
The main
thing is getting the SKILLS, and clubs offer you a FANTASTIC place
to get TONS of practice interacting with TONS of different
women.
Also, because
of the vibes of clubs, you can also get a chance to develop your
skills at building up physical contact smoothly and properly. And
because of the music and the crowds and her friends, you improve
your vocal skills, your social skills at dealing with her friends,
your sense of humor, your dominance, etc.
And you learn
to do it all in a way where you never lose the sense of just having
fun and being laid back, believe it or not. Which is
important, as NONE of this stuff works if you are feeling
STRAINED.
But in order to get to that point, you have to build yourself up,
just like at the gym the weights first feel heavy, then feel light
after you get stronger.
The idea is always to use MINIMUM energy and be as relaxed as
possible, while simultaneously still being fun, playful, dominant,
sexual, etc.
ALWAYS do as LITTLE as possible. The way to know how little to do
is to ask
yourself "what states is she ALREADY in right now, so that I don't
have to
bother with that".
So for
example, if a girl was ALREADY laughing, and feeling comfortable,
and feeling TURNED ON, for WHATEVER reason, all you have to do is
go in and say
hi, my name is _________ and say it in the same energy level she is
at.
Because, EVERTHING HAS ALREADY been DONE STATE-WISE.
That's why at a bookstore, you don't have to focus as much on
creating a "normal" vibe, since the environment is ALREADY laid
back and normal.
But you DO
have to add a little energy to the mix or you will seem like a
BORING guy.
Whereas at a club, she already feels more energy because of the
environment, so it's easy to do fun playful stuff there, as it
makes total sense there, but then you need to work a little harder
to create some "real genuine" rapport --
because that
environment on its own is a "heightened" energy (music, lights,
fun, sexuality) that allows women a bit more social license to
loosen up a little, which also makes women thus be TOUGHER the next
day on NOT taking seriously the guy they met at the club the night
before UNLESS he worked on creating solid rapport as well.
The reality is that all this is just the TIP of the
ICEBERG.
When you get
the full picture, you'll see how all this is not as difficult as it
seems. The various elements of attraction and pick up are all
RELATED and the more pieces of the puzzle you learn, the easier it
is to understand and put the OTHER pieces together as well in a
natural way. The natural vibes of sexuality, high
self-esteem, powerful self concepts, playfulness, sense of
confident humor, cool style all fit together PERFECTLY.
This is NOT about manipulation unless you DECIDE TO MAKE IT
THAT.
This is about
making things better for YOU and better for WOMEN. In fact, just
the other night I met this girl and we eventually got around to
talking about what we do, because we're both creative
types.
Her first
reaction to what I do is that it's a great thing, because it helps
women as much as it does men.
Funny how so
far, every single high self esteem woman I've met has been COOL
about what I do.
Because, you
see, women WANT to meet a cool guy, and they would LOVE it if he
was cool enough to know how make the entire experience SMOOTH and
PLAYFUL and SEXUAL.
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