Your Rise To
Pimpness By: Mark Redman
Mark is the author of the excellent report "The Truth About College Game" as well as the bestselling "Conquer Your Campus Training Manual".
On your rise to super-pimpness you're going to figure something out VERY quickly. And that is...
*****OTHER GUYS ARE GOING TO TRY TO KEEP YOU DOWN****
You see at any given moment, everyone in any social situation has a clearcut concept of where they stand in
relation to everyone else.
And the second you start making strides forward, or up, the people who have defined their own roles in
relation to you are going to start basically freaking out.
Your buddies that used to be "cooler" than you are going to immediately FEEL your confidence, and get
threatened by it. And their reaction will be to "tool you."
What is tooling?
It's basically when another guy makes you look uncool, or low status.
So the question then becomes..
Why wouldn't they want you to do well? After all they're your friends…aren't they?
And that's perfectly valid - but check it out: on a very primitive level they know that as you gain value in
relation to them, you have more and more access to the girls, and they have less and less.
The spoils go to the victor as they say…and in college, it's no different. The coolest guys get the girls.
The second coolest guys get…mud.
So your first takeaway is this:
***The cooler you get, the more haters there will be***
Now this is extremely important to realize. I didn't get this for the longest time and it really messed with
me.
Because I would do all of this self improvement stuff to get better with girls and be a cooler guy and the
results was that my friends would basically tear me apart verbally.
Like, even after I started getting laid – things started getting worse!
Now it's basic psychology stuff that when we're rewarded for a behavior we continue it, and when we're
punished we pretty much do anything we can to avoid it.
So you can imagine the wrench that this throws in your "get better with girls" plan.
As you get better, you get more and more negative feedback from your buddies.
And your brain tries to mess you up and tell you to stop your cool new behavior.
You must understand that above all, when you get cooler,
your buddies will start messing with you more. They will try to shove you back into the little box that you used to
operate out of.
And that's cool. Because every time they try to nail you
with a jab or an insult, or whatever…
***YOU REALIZE THAT YOU ARE MAKING PROGRESS***
And this is huge, because once you realize this, the whole
meaning of what they are doing changes. You realize that the attacks are not valid. You used to view them as negative feedback, but now you
realize that they are in fact the highest form of positive feedback.
Other people can feel your confidence and it's scary. They realize that you are coming into your own and that
the girls are gonna freakin' want you.
And this is a good thing, young jedi, because this means
you're well on your way to college domination.
Ok, that's just the beginning, over the next couple of days we're going to dive headfirst into how to rise to
the top of the male pecking order on your camps. So that the girls start lining up outside of your bedroom for a chance to sleep with the
king.
Stay tuned man and I'll be back atcha with more pieces of the puzzle in a day or two..
peace
Mark
PS If you haven't grabbed your copy of the Conquer Your Campus Training Manual, pick it up NOW!
CONQUER YOUR CAMPUS NOW!
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